Category: Life

A Rant About Sexual Elitism

Several weeks ago, something was retweeted into my Twitter timeline, which made me feel uncomfortable and has played on my mind since. It was from an account that had recently been created to offer private sex parties, by invitation, for couples. Nothing wrong with that at all. The thing that troubled me was that it specified

A Rant About ‘Obesity’

I recently decided to check my body mass index (BMI) on the NHS website. Apparently, I am considered obese as my BMI is 32.9. I am quite heavy and I am of average height for a woman, so I was not surprised by this score. It’s recommended that I should be eating between 1731-2225 calories

Online Dating the Old-Fashioned Way

The expression ‘online dating’ seems to crop up everywhere nowadays. Websites such as  e-Harmony, Match.com and Plenty of Fish are thrust at us constantly. It’s the cool way to try and meet the person of your dreams and, of course, totally socially acceptable. However, meeting a partner through a dating agency wasn’t always considered to be

A Matter of Taste: Oral Sex

I recently had to attend a dentist appointment and, as frequently happens, the dentist was running considerably behind schedule. Having exhausted my Twitter feed on my phone, I picked up a recent  copy of a magazine aimed at young women and flicked through the usual inane adverts and articles. I am not usually interested in most of

Adventures in Naturism

I enjoy being naked outside, but given the climate of the UK, and the fact that I am in the wrong part of the country for nudist beaches, it’s something that has rarely happened. In fact, publicly, only on two previous occasions. I recently told a Twitter friend about my (very limited) experience of naturism, and

A Brief Encounter

 A secret account. Trying to get noticed. Won’t take no for an answer. Persistent messages. Finally chatting. A great rapport. Built slowly over months. Shared secrets. Trusting too easily. A mid-life crisis? A request for a lunch date. A meeting at a station. A pleasant surprise. Can it be the same person? An afternoon of culture. Matchstick men

Secret Twitter Accounts: A Modern Mid-Life Crisis?

One thing that has struck me since I have been using Twitter is the number of ‘secret accounts’ that are out there. The definition of secret presumably being that the ‘other half’ doesn’t know about it. It would appear that we are all looking for something more; a new and exciting dimension to our everyday lives. ‘Humdrum’ was

A Few Things I Find Sexy In Men

A few of the things that I find sexy in men… Tall men A bit shallow of me I know, but I have always had a thing for tall men; the taller the better. Maybe it’s a primitive urge for protection; I don’t know. But there’s something reassuring and comforting about them towering over, and looking down on you.  My

Body Confidence

So, why do I choose to post ‘sexy selfies’ and show my boobs and bum on Twitter?  Well, there are two reasons: first, it has helped to improve my body confidence enormously and, secondly, to be frank, I enjoy doing it. I have never been a ‘skinny chick’. Far from it. But I never thought of my body in a positive way as