The Importance of a Blowjob

The theme for round two of the Summer 100 sex bloggers’ challenge is oral sex. I have already written about The Importance of Cunnilingus and, of course. I must be fair and write a post about fellatio, or blowjob as I prefer.

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I have always enjoyed giving a blowjob, and they have always been well received. too.  I’m not alone in enjoying performing blowjobs, as both Fairycake and Victoria reveal.

As I recall from many years ago, a couple of guys were quite happy to receive a good suck of their cock, but weren’t willing to reciprocate. Once their fun was finished, that was it; the cock was zipped away and sex was over. A completely selfish approach, but at that time of my life I was frequently  made to feel that pleasure derived from sex was purely for men, and I certainly didn’t have the confidence to question it.

Over the years, I have met quite a few guys who say they don’t  like receiving a blow job as it does little for them. I am always surprised to hear this, but obviously everyone is different. I like to think that perhaps one of my blow jobs would have done something for them!

A few years ago, when I was looking for a sexual partner, I chatted extensively with a guy who was incredulous that I enjoyed sucking cock. He loved to receive oral sex, but he thought that women didn’t really enjoy going down on a guy and just tolerated it to please them. How wrong he was! We never went on to meet, which was my decision.

When I give a blowjob,  S likes me to lie with my head on his stomach, which is a huge turn-on for him. Sometimes, I start by pouring a small amount of baby oil onto the head of his cock and let it slowly run down the shaft.  Other times, I don’t bother with the oil and just dive straight in with my eager tongue.  However, I’ve found that the best response happens  when I sit between his legs and massage his cock first, so it’s stiff before my my lips get to touch it. I then change position to lie alongside him and lick the tip of his cock.  This act results in moans of desire as soon as my tongue makes contact, which is wonderful to hear.

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Giving a blowjob also allows me the chance to study his cock in detail, and watch how it grows, and changes shape and texture. Regardless of how I start the blowjob, I always take the opportunity to extensively explore his cock with my tongue, delighting in licking the shaft from top to bottom and probing around the head. Once he is hard, I love to suck him and feel how solid his cock is.

When it looks as if he is going to come, I pause for a few moments and start again. And tease him over and over. When I decide it’s time for him to orgasm, I concentrate on his frenulum. A few hard strokes of my tongue, and he cannot hold back any longer. I keep licking, delighting at the warm stream erupting from his cock.  I continue to lick the same spot after he has ejaculated, which sees him juddering and convulsing in ecstasy for several moments.  Seeing and hearing the pleasure that S experiences from a simple blowjob is immensely satisfying for me.

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I have also submitted this post to the Oral Sex Project at Rebel’s Notes.

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